I thought it was pretty. :)
Friday, December 30, 2011
Finally!
There is some news I am able to post of LT's ship. It won the Christmas light decoration contest for the "on the water" category!
I thought it was pretty. :)
I thought it was pretty. :)
Tuesday, December 27, 2011
My Special Christmas
My Christmas was a happy one. Lt and I gave each other simple gifts.
Lt has decided he should golf with the other officers because it is good for his career. He has been forced to use the course clubs so I gave him golf clubs and shoes. The clubs he liked. The shoes he seemed less than thrilled with. I suppose learning his taste in shoes is something I will learn in time. I assured him I would not be offended if he returned them for a pair more to his style.
At the first Lt told me he believed I understood my car was my present. I attempted to accept the answer though I did not understand why he spent the weeks before speaking in mysteries of the coming Christmas.
His teasing did not continue long however. I was confused but it is a sensible thought. The car was a great expense. It seems my face betrayed my thoughts and he thought me near crying. He went to the window and waved. After a few seconds there was a tap at the door and the Commander and Dorothy entered then stood aside. Behind them stood my best friend Heather! I could not move my surprise was so great! Such an incredible gift Lt has given me! He has brought my adopted sister from the USA to Japan.
I believe to cause me to cry was his goal for the day. He succeeded. Before I could speak, Heather said to me "He went to Jared's" and handed me a box. I did not look inside it. I did not think to do so immediately. I could only think to embrace my friend. I confess one would have believed a teenage girl was at my house given the squeals from me. A person would believe there had been years since we had seen one another. It was some time before I was reminded of the box.
Inside the box I discovered a gold anchor pendant with USN written in silver. A diamond is at the top. He was listening when I told him of my desire to have something to always remind me of being a navy wife. It is another proof that I have chosen well my husband! :) I have not removed it since he placed it around my neck.
Another thing I have discovered. Heather is to be here for 3 weeks. I was not unhappy to hear of this but it was accompanied by other news which I will not speak of that does not please me. Perhaps at a later time I will speak of it.
I can not be the best tour guide to Heather. I have not been here so long as to know everything. I will show her what Lt and I have discovered so far. We will walk and we will talk. If there are other places or things she wishes to see the recreation office has many tours.When the visit is done it is likely there will be much time before we are together again.
I will always wear my necklace. I will enjoy Heather's visit.
I cherish my gift of Lt. I am content.
Lt has decided he should golf with the other officers because it is good for his career. He has been forced to use the course clubs so I gave him golf clubs and shoes. The clubs he liked. The shoes he seemed less than thrilled with. I suppose learning his taste in shoes is something I will learn in time. I assured him I would not be offended if he returned them for a pair more to his style.
At the first Lt told me he believed I understood my car was my present. I attempted to accept the answer though I did not understand why he spent the weeks before speaking in mysteries of the coming Christmas.
His teasing did not continue long however. I was confused but it is a sensible thought. The car was a great expense. It seems my face betrayed my thoughts and he thought me near crying. He went to the window and waved. After a few seconds there was a tap at the door and the Commander and Dorothy entered then stood aside. Behind them stood my best friend Heather! I could not move my surprise was so great! Such an incredible gift Lt has given me! He has brought my adopted sister from the USA to Japan.
I believe to cause me to cry was his goal for the day. He succeeded. Before I could speak, Heather said to me "He went to Jared's" and handed me a box. I did not look inside it. I did not think to do so immediately. I could only think to embrace my friend. I confess one would have believed a teenage girl was at my house given the squeals from me. A person would believe there had been years since we had seen one another. It was some time before I was reminded of the box.
Inside the box I discovered a gold anchor pendant with USN written in silver. A diamond is at the top. He was listening when I told him of my desire to have something to always remind me of being a navy wife. It is another proof that I have chosen well my husband! :) I have not removed it since he placed it around my neck.
Another thing I have discovered. Heather is to be here for 3 weeks. I was not unhappy to hear of this but it was accompanied by other news which I will not speak of that does not please me. Perhaps at a later time I will speak of it.
I can not be the best tour guide to Heather. I have not been here so long as to know everything. I will show her what Lt and I have discovered so far. We will walk and we will talk. If there are other places or things she wishes to see the recreation office has many tours.When the visit is done it is likely there will be much time before we are together again.
I will always wear my necklace. I will enjoy Heather's visit.
I cherish my gift of Lt. I am content.
Monday, December 19, 2011
Humour
I believe my english has progressed enough to enjoy jokes.
During my early days in America my english skills were sufficient to communicate at my work. Jokes did not go well with me. It is not funny if it requires explanation I was told.
Last night I finally "got it" with no explanation.
Lt and I were watching a movie. It was not a particularly great one but there was a scene in which the characters played "rocks, paper, scissors" to determine who would go to a meeting first. One chose rock while the other chose paper. Rock claimed to have won so paper must go first. Paper protested saying paper usually wins over rock why does he lose? Rock replied, "If you are outside with only a piece of paper and I throw a rock at you, who wins?"
See? Funny!
During my early days in America my english skills were sufficient to communicate at my work. Jokes did not go well with me. It is not funny if it requires explanation I was told.
Last night I finally "got it" with no explanation.
Lt and I were watching a movie. It was not a particularly great one but there was a scene in which the characters played "rocks, paper, scissors" to determine who would go to a meeting first. One chose rock while the other chose paper. Rock claimed to have won so paper must go first. Paper protested saying paper usually wins over rock why does he lose? Rock replied, "If you are outside with only a piece of paper and I throw a rock at you, who wins?"
See? Funny!
Wednesday, December 14, 2011
XP
Lt went fishing. He caught many fish. They were disgusting!
As I watched him clean them I knew something was not correct. They tore much too easily and the meat was mushy. I am not a fish expert but I do know what fish meat is supposed to be and this was not it.
I asked Lt where he caught such fish. He explained the Commander heard of a place where fish were plentiful and easily caught. There was also a very high number you could catch and keep. It was somewhat expensive to enter. Lt said it cost them ¥5000 (at the current exchange rate it is $64.00)each. I will say sometimes high limits does not justify high cost.
What was wrong? Imagine putting a spoonful of lard into your mouth then drinking a glass of oil. This was the texture and flavor of these fish. I could not bring myself to swallow it. I am afraid my manners were forgotten in an impulse when I spit it out.
Lt's pride seemed to be hurt until he tasted it. He too spit it out. This was also repeated at Dorothy's house.
Investigation revealed the fish were trout. The place was a fish farm. The water was shallow and warm. All these things combine to make a horrible mistake to be made only once. If you are wise, you will ask others of it..... if you are wise, you will avoid Japanese fish farms unless you wish to pay ¥5000 to see fish swimming in shallow pools.
Fish farms are popular in Japan. The why of it I do not know. They are surrounded by ocean and seafood is plentiful and inexpensive. I would suppose it is part of the male ego of providing for his family that drives it. Buying it is not the same as catching it yourself.
I believe that to be rather silly. My Lt provides for us without killing the cow, or the chicken, or any other animal to provide meat. He has no farm where he grows our vegetables. These things we leave to others who are far more skilled at doing them. Lt will do those things the farmer and rancher can not do. We will eat well and they will eat in peace.
Lt made fried balogna sandwiches for dinner. Much more tasty than the fish.
As I watched him clean them I knew something was not correct. They tore much too easily and the meat was mushy. I am not a fish expert but I do know what fish meat is supposed to be and this was not it.
I asked Lt where he caught such fish. He explained the Commander heard of a place where fish were plentiful and easily caught. There was also a very high number you could catch and keep. It was somewhat expensive to enter. Lt said it cost them ¥5000 (at the current exchange rate it is $64.00)each. I will say sometimes high limits does not justify high cost.
What was wrong? Imagine putting a spoonful of lard into your mouth then drinking a glass of oil. This was the texture and flavor of these fish. I could not bring myself to swallow it. I am afraid my manners were forgotten in an impulse when I spit it out.
Lt's pride seemed to be hurt until he tasted it. He too spit it out. This was also repeated at Dorothy's house.
Investigation revealed the fish were trout. The place was a fish farm. The water was shallow and warm. All these things combine to make a horrible mistake to be made only once. If you are wise, you will ask others of it..... if you are wise, you will avoid Japanese fish farms unless you wish to pay ¥5000 to see fish swimming in shallow pools.
Fish farms are popular in Japan. The why of it I do not know. They are surrounded by ocean and seafood is plentiful and inexpensive. I would suppose it is part of the male ego of providing for his family that drives it. Buying it is not the same as catching it yourself.
I believe that to be rather silly. My Lt provides for us without killing the cow, or the chicken, or any other animal to provide meat. He has no farm where he grows our vegetables. These things we leave to others who are far more skilled at doing them. Lt will do those things the farmer and rancher can not do. We will eat well and they will eat in peace.
Lt made fried balogna sandwiches for dinner. Much more tasty than the fish.
Tuesday, December 13, 2011
Did you know?
It is difficult to find Christmas trees here. At the least, trees you can buy cheaper than a car.
We found one. It is my first tree. Before now I always enjoyed Mother Bing's tree. She is gifted with decorating. I am not. But I do attempt to make things look pleasing.
How did I do?
We found one. It is my first tree. Before now I always enjoyed Mother Bing's tree. She is gifted with decorating. I am not. But I do attempt to make things look pleasing.
How did I do?
Sunday, December 11, 2011
Happiness..... Day2
Today I enjoyed a perfect day with Lt.
We walked around the city visiting parks. We walked arm in arm. I wished for the other women to know he is mine. He is handsome and a naval officer so it would be natural for them to attempt his attention. I am only saving them from wasting time. Only I will have his attention.
Japan is fond of parks if I am to consider how many there are. We walked the blue road. We visited many shops. We bought little but still the experience was enjoyable. We even bought an Akiaji beer from a vending machine. It is rude to walk and drink a beverage of any sort so we found a nearby bench and watched people walk past.
We enjoyed a wonderful lunch at a local restaurant. I knew much of what I ate. Lt was not so fortunate. It is good he is adventurous in his eating. Sometimes it is best he does not know what it is he eats. :) He says "If it tastes good I eat it. I do not ask." I wonder if he would be so brave at my father's house.
After our long walk, we shopped at the NEX. We bought foot spas which were put to immediate use on our arrival at home. Now we will sit and watch a movie. I intend to sit closely and snuggle. I will be "cold" so his arm will necessarily be around me.
After our movie we will go to the club for our dinner. It is my reward for preparing a special dinner last night. I do not require a reward for doing that which made me happy. But I will not refuse it.
I believe I will decide to have more of these days rather than worry of those things I can not change. I will be happy.
Mr Buble! If you please!
We walked around the city visiting parks. We walked arm in arm. I wished for the other women to know he is mine. He is handsome and a naval officer so it would be natural for them to attempt his attention. I am only saving them from wasting time. Only I will have his attention.
Japan is fond of parks if I am to consider how many there are. We walked the blue road. We visited many shops. We bought little but still the experience was enjoyable. We even bought an Akiaji beer from a vending machine. It is rude to walk and drink a beverage of any sort so we found a nearby bench and watched people walk past.
We enjoyed a wonderful lunch at a local restaurant. I knew much of what I ate. Lt was not so fortunate. It is good he is adventurous in his eating. Sometimes it is best he does not know what it is he eats. :) He says "If it tastes good I eat it. I do not ask." I wonder if he would be so brave at my father's house.
After our long walk, we shopped at the NEX. We bought foot spas which were put to immediate use on our arrival at home. Now we will sit and watch a movie. I intend to sit closely and snuggle. I will be "cold" so his arm will necessarily be around me.
After our movie we will go to the club for our dinner. It is my reward for preparing a special dinner last night. I do not require a reward for doing that which made me happy. But I will not refuse it.
I believe I will decide to have more of these days rather than worry of those things I can not change. I will be happy.
Mr Buble! If you please!
Saturday, December 10, 2011
A good day!
I have found myself dancing around to Michael Buble.... again. I am unable to help myself. It is as someone else takes control and spins me around the room. I do not complain of it though. Feeling happy is preferable over any other feeling.
Lt always knows when I have been listening. He tends to tease me but only a little. It usually indicates a good night for him. ;) Perhaps that is why he stops at the NEX searching for more of Mr Buble's music. Lt's latest offering is the "Christmas" cd. It is very easy to dance to.
Perhaps... There may be a special dinner set for him tonight. Dancing may be appropriate also. Anything else is none of your business. ;) lol
Lt always knows when I have been listening. He tends to tease me but only a little. It usually indicates a good night for him. ;) Perhaps that is why he stops at the NEX searching for more of Mr Buble's music. Lt's latest offering is the "Christmas" cd. It is very easy to dance to.
Perhaps... There may be a special dinner set for him tonight. Dancing may be appropriate also. Anything else is none of your business. ;) lol
Monday, December 05, 2011
In time...
I hope my Lt will see me with different eyes.
When he looks to my hip he sees scars. When he looks to my legs he sees scars. He is unable even to kiss my neck without kissing a scar. I have been told I am fortunate there is no scar on my face. This is a kind effort made by people who do not have scars to cause me to feel better of myself.
He denies the scars affect him more than he will say but I see it in his eyes. I am as any other woman who wants her husband to look to her with desire. My Lt looks to me with pain. I am unable to entice him as other women entice their husbands. When I attempt it, it is then I see him act as if I have cut him.
I am unable to decide what to do for it.
When he looks to my hip he sees scars. When he looks to my legs he sees scars. He is unable even to kiss my neck without kissing a scar. I have been told I am fortunate there is no scar on my face. This is a kind effort made by people who do not have scars to cause me to feel better of myself.
He denies the scars affect him more than he will say but I see it in his eyes. I am as any other woman who wants her husband to look to her with desire. My Lt looks to me with pain. I am unable to entice him as other women entice their husbands. When I attempt it, it is then I see him act as if I have cut him.
I am unable to decide what to do for it.
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